friends…ughh help please?
December 27, 2009 by
Filed under Popular Diet Plans
please help me… im in middle school and theres a lot of drama. I sit at the popular table, but i dont always have plans with them. i really want to be more popular… like so bad. im fatter then all of them and i no that i am. i no that like self convidence is key or whatever but honestly, i just want to be popular. and in highschhool it wont go away. please dont say i should not be with the bit*** girls or just keep ur grades up. please help me..how can i get more popular ..when i talk to them a lot?? helpppp.. and im fat.. what kind of diet should i go on.. ughhh i hate thiisss..p.s im not like fat fat …im just not as skinny as the other popular pretty girls
It’s not that physical appearance or "social-status" of a person that counts…it’s the inside what counts…if you try to be popular, you’ll probably just make a fool of yourself. Don’t pay attention to those wack clique things…they just cause drama and remember that being popular doesn’t mean anything. Just be yourself! We don’t need anymore plastic clones in the world…
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Be no one but yourself.
It’s not that physical appearance or "social-status" of a person that counts…it’s the inside what counts…if you try to be popular, you’ll probably just make a fool of yourself. Don’t pay attention to those wack clique things…they just cause drama and remember that being popular doesn’t mean anything. Just be yourself! We don’t need anymore plastic clones in the world…
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Be no one but yourself.
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um can’t you ask them if you’re fat cuz like they can have a second opinoin you know. and diets don’t work, trust me my life has been miserable with them. some people don’t really care about popular people cuz they are so ignorant. but not all of them
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you know you can’t be popular just becuz you want it to happen.
If you try to impress other than that mean you making fool of urself which is no good!!
Except your personality!!!
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There are some things that will come to you in life if you DON’T try so hard to go after them. They are a by-product of something else that you do. It seems you think if you can be as skinny as these girls, look like them, act like them, they will like you and you will be popular. But what is the trade-off for you? You will spend all your time and energy trying to be like other people instead of being yourself. Now, you might think there isn’t much to you, but it seems you haven’t even begun to discover yourself! I suggest you take a good long hard look at who you are, what you want from your life, and what fascinates you. And the discovery might take some time, and it might take some trial-and-error. But you will find out soon enough what a miracle you are. Ask yourself questions. Do you enjoy certain activities, sports? Music? Can you write well? Can you play an instrument? If not, why don’t you start? And if nothing interests you (other than being popular), ask yourself why nothing interests you? Is it because you think your friends won’t approve? Honestly, take it from someone who knows……do NOT get in the habit of caring so much what other people think that you never find out who you are and what makes you special. When you find your passion, the thing you really love to do, and you hone your skills, and you give your gift to the world, people will love you for it. By NOT pursuing popularity, by NOT pursuing the affections of people to validate your self-worth, by making yourself and your life extraordinary, you may be surprised to find that people really admire who you’ve become. By then, you may be grateful for their approval, but you won’t need it to give you a sense of self-worth. God made you a wonderful person. Find out why he put you here. There is something special inside of you waiting to burst out and surprise us all. You are very young. Now is the time to get started, sweetheart. I’m expecting great things from you.
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Sorry if its harsh but the harder you try, the more you will fail. Just relax and be yourself, and stop this "I’m fat" rubbish, i can tell by the way you speak you are probably a perfect size, and you are just comparing yourself too them too much. You won’t believe how many times i’ve heard girls in the "popular" group at my school crying "omg, i’m so fat" when actually, they are a fine size, and "fat" is the last word anyone would use to describe them.
Being popular isn’t everything – I am down the bottom of the popularity chain at my school, and nobody down my end looks up to the so-called "popular" people as you would imagine they do. In fact, they look down upon them BECAUSE they are popular! Popularity isn’t everything, what is more important is to find some friends who you can get close to, and have a real and true friendship with, and who don’t judge you by your reputation or popularity status.
As i said, and i will say it so many times if i have to, POPULARITY ISN’T EVERYTHING! i was popular in primary school, and it can’t even compete with the perfect friendship i had with my one best friend, yes, you heard right, ONE best friend! Shock horror!
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